Changing My Last Name Impacted My Career In a Way I Never Expected Heres How

Changing My belastung Name Impacted My Career In a Way I Never Expected Heres How Growing up with a suranthroponym that wouldve definitely been a high score in Scrabble had its advantages as well as its disadvantages.Early on in my career, I welches always known as the woman with the unpronounceable surpersonenname, causing much hilarity and chuckling at office receptions when people introduced me as Lis With the Name I Cant Pronounce.On the plus side, everyone always seemed to remember me, and I welches thankful that I couldnt be confused for someone with the saatkorn name (even withstanding years of having to incessantly spell out my name upon every interaction).When I was first married, I decided not to change my name the main reason being I was so well known under my maiden name in my industry that I was convinced my professional identity would be affected. So I decided to stick with my maiden name, despite my husband at the time not being very impressed with my decision. He br oached the subject numerous times, in fact, and the more he pushed it, the more I dug my heels in.Wind the clock forward many years, and upon getting married the second time, I had no hesitation in wanting to change my name. It was perhaps strange, but I felt that at that point I was at in my career, my name made little difference. It no longer defined my career success or identity a view that was worlds different from what I believed in earlier years.My name no longer defines my career success or professional identity.Our wedding was a complete secret. We didnt even tell family or friends and essentially jetted off to New York City one very cold winters day to marry in Central Park. Upon returning back to the UK, I thought nothing of going through the process of changing my name both personally and professionally. My wonderful husband often said to me, I dont expect you to change your name you are well known by it. But to me, it was something I wanted to do.The first day back in t he office, I notified my Companys IT Department. In a matter of days, I saw that they had managed to seamlessly change my email address, directory listing, and all of the associated distribution lists I was attached to.But after a couple of days, something very odd started to happen.My emails to colleagues and clients continued as normal however, the prompt responses that once regularly filled my inbox started to become absent. Surely, people hadnt become so busy that no one had time to reply? I checked with the IT team just to ensure therbeie was no issue with the email platform itself and was reassured that all was normal. So, I decided to call a few people to check if my emails were getting through.What email? I havent received one from you.In fruchtwein cases, they adamantly replied that they hadnt received anything. This was really odd to me, so I responded, Can you just check if you have anything from Lis Brown? (As opposed to the Lis Djukanovic they were accustomed to receivi ng emails from.)Responses ranged from, Oh, I didnt know who that was, so I ignored it to I assumed it was spam, so deleted it, and so on.For me, changing my name was the easy part, as I had assumed it was more of an administrative task. But the part I had missed was the impact it would have on others. I realized that Id been taking for granted the name Id been known by for all those years, and how it had allowed me to operate and communicate seamlessly as I established my career.Ultimately, changing my name hasnt affected my career, but itdidreinforce the idea that the identity by which were originally known can change but not without a few bumps along the way. Id assumed my new and newly simplified name would be shared with tremendous ease, and that Id never have to utter the words let me spell that for you again. But even now, I frequently get, Is that Brown with an e? Oh, how I chuckle to myself.If youre deliberating over changing your name, here are some useful tips to follow For those with an HR department Speak to them early so they can advise you on the process that needs to be followed it will require more than an email change, believe you me.Update all the places where you have an online presence This will be critical to ensure continuity across work history or where references checks are performed.Use the signature block in emails to show your change of name Even if you dont want it there permanently, having it for a period of time certainly helps ease the transition.Be aware that distribution lists containing your email may not necessarily change automatically Theyll need to be adjusted to enable email forwarding, so allow adequate time for that to take place.Dont forget to change your voicemail messages. And your business cards will need an update, tooIf you feel comfortable with it, notify your key contacts that your name is changing. Reintroduce yourself under the name that you will be using. That way they will know its still the same you (and you wont wind up lost in a spam folder like I was).Finally, remember that the choice is yours. What matters most is your motivations and prerogative. And if changing your name does indeed matter to you, the inconvenience of the adjustment period will be well worth it.Have you run into similar career roadblocks after changing your name, or are considering changing it but feel unsure? Head over to Fairygodboss community discussion on this topic to read about other womens experiences--Lis Brown is a People Leader with more than 25 years experience in the Management Consulting and Technology Industries. She has spent most of her career working around the globe and has truly embraced operating across different cultures and working styles, often being the only woman leader in the room. Lis is a passionate supporter of all aspects of Diversity and more importantly in ensuring inclusive and supportive environments for all. She is known for her strong moral compass and has no fear in speaki ng out and doing the right thing.